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Breastfeeding Myths

Friday, July 25th, 2008

A few myths that were going around 10 years ago and that are still going around today:

I have inverted nipples so I couldn’t.
http://www.breastfeed-essentials.com/invertednipples.html - Women BREASTfeed, not NIPPLEfeed. With knowledge and help most women can go on to breastfeed and many do. For some the problem corrects itself as the pregnancy progresses and for other there are things you can do while still pregnant to prepare for breastfeeding when the baby is born. http://www.breastfeeding.org/articles/beforebaby.html

I got sick so I couldn’t.
http://www.kellymom.com/health/illness/mom-illness.html - Short of a few serious illnesses you can and should continue to breastfeed. Your milk won’t make the baby sick, BUT it does give him antibodies to your cold/flu etc. Just be sure any medications you may take are safe while breastfeeding.

I didn’t have enough milk/a little supplementing won’t hurt/he only wanted a bottle.
http://www.kidsnutrition.org/consumer/archives/supply.htm
http://www.drjaygordon.com/development/bf/supppit.asp
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/2/t023200.asp - Most people don’t understand the system of supply and demand. (Just look at the debt issues in our country today…) Breastfeeding is very much a matter of supply and demand… or actually baby demands and your body supplies! When you introduce bottles the demand on you falls and your body gets the message and your supply drops. Continue this trend and soon you’re not making enough.

Yeah, I know some people do fall into the small minority of women that are UNABLE to breastfeed because of a real problem. But, the majority of those that I’ve seen that have claimed an “inability” to breastfeed were because of a failure to seek out/be provided knowledge and support, not a failure of their body.

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College

Saturday, May 10th, 2008

My husband just wrote a great article I just had to share.

College: Who needs it?

Cauliflower is nothing but cabbage with a college education. – Mark Twain

Every man should have a college education in order to show him how little the thing is really worth. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Parent Training Classes

Friday, February 1st, 2008

Parenting Lessons Don’t Stop Toddler Tantrums

They compared a group of mothers and children that went through a “Parent training programme” with a group that didn’t. At the end of 2 years:

“….  there was no significant difference in the level of behaviour problems in the children, or in the mental health of the mothers.”

I think that just about says it all.

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Rules and Consequences

Thursday, January 10th, 2008

http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/wayoflife/01/09/mean.mom.ap/index.html 
Meanest Mom on Planet Sells Son’s Car.

I love it! Rules are rules. He only had two: Keep it locked and no booze. No booze means just that. Be it yours or others. You just get the car at Thanksgiving and you can’t even keep the rules for 3 whole months?

When you break the rules you suffer the consequences. If more parents actually stuck to their guns and had a little school of hard knocks training going on maybe the youth of today wouldn’t be such a mess.

Kudos to the parents.

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Living Small

Friday, December 28th, 2007

I read a lot of magazines. The articles are perfect for short or long waits. Something I can pick up and put down and continue on with my day. Recently I read an article about homeschooling a large family. Ordinarily I would have skipped it as having an only child I glean very little from such articles. I don’t need to know how to keep the baby/toddler/pre-schooler busy while working with the kindergarten/first grader/older children. I have only the one to worry about.

 For whatever reason I started reading it and found it quite good. She talked about finding peace as a homeschooling mother, making things work, and being happy and thankful no matter your family size. Whether that be 1 or 10 children. She went on to acknowledge women she knew who have 1 child and would love to have more, but for whatever reason have not been blessed in that way. I thought wow, this is actually good stuff that applies to all homeschoolers.

She then spent the next page and half after that listing all the blessings and advantages of homeschooling and having a larger than usual family. That wouldn’t have been bad had she also included the other side, but she didn’t. So, here are just a few things that come to mind regarding homeschooling as well as family life with an only:

  • Undivided attention 
  • More parent child time
  • Generally speaking more finances for textbooks, travel, or activities
  • As well as more time for activities
  • Less chance for burnout when only divided by one
  • Only 1 child to worry about when on a field trip
  • No sibling rivalry or disagreements
  • No comparisons of who did/does it better
  • Knowing who broke the vase/ate that/or left that laying there

Those are just a few things off the top of my head. I’m not saying having an only child isn’t without its cons, but it does also have its pros. I wouldn’t have made the choice on my own, but since things are what they are I find what peace I can in it. I make it work. I am thankful for  having an only child and the advantages and blessings that come with that.

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The Only Child Question

Thursday, December 6th, 2007

Seems everyone has an idea of how life in general works and is suppose to go. It amazes me the unsolicited advice given by well meaning people. Wither they know what is really going on or not. About subjects that quite frankly are private and none of  their business anyway. 

When we married young everyone assumed we must be pregnant why else get married? After we’d been married for a few years everyone told us we should be having babies by now. Once we were finally blessed with a child, and he was over a year old, everyone informed us he needed a sibling so he wouldn’t be an Only Child.

I’m still asked today when meeting new people if he is an Only Child. In that tone of voice like it is some sort of curse to be one. Must be because I’ve heard often enough how they had another child or where planning on another so (s)he wouldn’t be an Only Child! Sadder still is the assumption that we must be selfish for making him be an Only Child.

Apparently all Only Children  grow up spoiled and socially inept and everyone knows an Only Child who is just like that to prove it. I’m sure we’ve all heard someone dismiss bad behaviour saying, “Oh, (s)he’s an only child.” What about all the children with siblings who are spoiled, shy, sheltered, selfish, etc etc? Where is the, “Oh, he has all those siblings! No wonder he acts like that.” comments then?

Sharing a bedroom/genetics does not guarantee a close relationship. Having siblings does not guarantee a giving and selfless spirit. Having siblings does not guarantee a built in playmate. Having siblings does not guarantee better behavior. It doesn’t even guarantee, although increases the likelihood, of nieces or nephews.

Having siblings only guarantees just that. A brother or sister so long as you both live.

Before you dismiss behavior and character as a result of the number of children in a family consider the parenting and personality of the person and not the number of siblings they have. And before you inform someone that they need to start or grow their family think about all the things you might not know about the situation… 

 A few links to related articles and resources.

http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/unsolicited-comments-about-your-family-p A funny, if sadly accurate, flow chart of how people assume your life should go.
http://www.christianitytoday.com/tcw/2001/marapr/10.66.html An article on Secondary infertility and how the “Is (s)he your Only Child?” question can sting.
http://www.parentingbookmark.com/pages/SN01.htm Only Child myths and facts

http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/HSBCompanyBlog/227509/ Homeschooling Only One – Common Fallacies
http://www.kidsource.com/kidsource/content2/only.child.html Some interesting statistics regarding the Only Child. .
http://www.onlychild.com/home.html A good resource for parenting an Only
http://www.helium.com/tm/66556/children-centered-selfish-oudated I love the last line in this article.

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Quick and Easy Bird Feeders

Wednesday, November 14th, 2007

With Fall here and Winter around the corner we got to thinking about our little friends. We like to watch the birds interact with each other while eating.  

Our favorite and super easy bird feeder is to take Pine Cones, coat them with Peanut Butter, roll them in Bird Seed, and hang them up with String. We did several of these last winter and they were quite the hit with our little feathered friends. 

Milk Jug Bird Feeder:
http://www.rosebudm.com/bluebird/mjug.htm
This is a fun, quick, inexpensive, and easy project that will invite lots of birds to your yard.

Here are some more bird feeder plans:
http://www.freeww.com/birdfeeders.html

And of course you can always buy any number of bird feeder kits that can be found in various stores. Here is one particular site I found with some and easy nice kits:
 http://www.birds-n-garden.com/gifts_for_children_kits.html

Keep an eye out at Lowes and Home Depot they usually offer FREE Kids Workshops on the weekends. I’ve seen a bird feeder listed as one of the items they make.

Happy Bird watching!

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In the News

Monday, November 5th, 2007

The Fraser Institute: Home schooling improves academic performance and reduces impact of socio-economic factors

http://www.fraserinstitute.org/commerce.web/newsrelease.aspx?nID=4933

You don’t have to be a teacher to teach your children BETTER than what they are getting in school. Homeschooling works. Homeschoolers are socialized just fine. And all that for less than half of what the public schools pay per child.

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While I’ve been playing with my "fish"

Thursday, November 2nd, 2006

My husband Brandon has been very busy working:

Creating http://www.meh-sc.org/ and http://www.meh-sc.org/forum/ a place and forum for homeschoolers to share ideas, ask questions and chat.

He also updated our own forum http://forums.swordsearcher.com/ which is for our SwordSearcher Bible Software. So that our users can chat and ask questions about the program.

In addition to the usual work involved with the business.

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An old funny I found going through my bookmarks

Friday, August 11th, 2006

With schools starting back up this month I thought I’d share this one:
http://jewishworldreview.com/strips/mallard/2000/mallard082304.asp

Enjoy.

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